PS 040: iTunes Contest Honoring Dr. Carl Rogers

Enter the iTunes Contest for your chance to win a FREE copy of On Becoming A Person, by Dr. Carl Rogers. Two winners will be announced here on the website February 20th!

Simply leave a rating and review on iTunes and you’ll automatically be entered for your chance to win a copy!

Dr. Rogers (January 8, 1902 – February 4, 1987) is well known for creating  Client-Centered Therapy.  He was one of the most influential psychologists of the 20th century, and he’s recognized as one of the founders of the humanistic approach to psychology. If you’d like to learn more about Carl Rogers, check out PS Episode 018.

Thank you for leaving a rating and review on iTunes!  -Jimmie

PS 039: Treating Depression with Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS)

Daniela White (M.D.) is a board certified child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist. Dr. White finished her residency in Adult Psychiatry at Baylor College of Medicine in 2000 and continued her training in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry at the same institution till 2002. During her training, she served as Chief Resident at Baylor Clinic in 2000 and Chief Fellow Resident in the Fellowship Program in 2002. She received her Diploma in Psychodynamic Therapy after she completed the two year training program at the Houston Galveston Psychoanalytic Institute between 2000 and 2002.

During this session, Dr. White and I discuss Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation as a medication free approach to treating depression. You’ll learn how TMS is different from other neurostimulation modalities and who can benefit. We also discuss delivery methods, rates of remission, and ongoing research for future use in other areas of mental health. It’s a fascinating topic that will make you look at technology in a whole new way.

CLICK HERE to download your free guide on TMS

Congratulations To Our 3 Winners: Laney (New York), Diane (Canada), and Tracey (Texas)!

These 3 PS Newsletter Subscribers won a free copy of Disarming the Narcissist by Wendy Behary.

Disarming the Narcissist explains how to move past a narcissist’s defenses using empathy, confrontation, and limit-setting. By learning to anticipate and navigate certain hot-button issues, you can relate to narcissists without triggering their aggression. The book also describes how to get your own needs met while sidestepping unproductive power struggles and senseless arguments. And most importantly, you discover how to hold them accountable for unacceptable behavior.

Psych Sessions Subscribers are the best!

More contests are on the way!

Cheers! Jimmie

PS 038: Disruptive Behavior Disorders with Ayo Gathing (M.D.)

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Ayo Afejuku Gathing (M.D.) is a board certified child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist.  Dr. Gathing earned her Bachelor’s of Science in Biology from the Georgia Institute of Technology and her Medical Doctorate from the Morehouse School of Medicine. She completed her general psychiatry residency at Emory University from 2006-2009 where she received many accolades and awards. She chose to further specialize in Child and Adolescent Psychiatry in a fellowship in 2009 to follow her dream to work with children with severe mental illnesses and become an expert in building healthy families.

During fellowship she began her involvement in national advocacy for children with mental illness, by participating in advocacy training for psychiatrists and traveling to Washington D.C. for the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry’s (AACAP) Advocacy Days at the capitol. She has also been a two time recipient of the AACAP educational outreach award and presented a clinical case conference at the AACAP 57th Annual Meeting in New York City.

During this session, Dr. Gathing and I discuss Disruptive Behavior Disorders, which are a group of behavioral disorders that frequently coexist among children and adolescents. They include behaviors like temper tantrums, physical aggression, and defiance towards any type of authority figure. These disorders include Oppositional Defiance Disorder (ODD) and Conduct Disorder (CD). While all children go through periods of testing limits, children with Disruptive Behavior Disorders struggle with school performance, family relationships, and peer connections. The disruptive behaviors usually intensify over time and negatively affect their everyday lives, as well as those around them. Listen to this episode and learn more about the differences between ODD and CD. You’ll also learn about the symptoms, diagnosis, prognosis, and more. Thanks for listening! -Jimmie

CLICK HERE to download your free tip sheet on Disruptive Behavior Disorders.

PS 037: Narcissism with Wendy Behary (LCSW)

wendyMy guest on this session is Wendy Behary, LCSW. Wendy is the founder and Clinical Director of the Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and the Schema Therapy Institute of New Jersey. She is also a distinguished founding fellow of the Academy of Cognitive Therapy. She maintains a private practice, specializing in narcissism and high-conflict couples therapy. Wendy is also the author of Disarming the Narcissist. You can learn more about her at http://www.disarmingthenarcissist.com

Do you know someone who only thinks of themselves and their own needs? Someone who is intimidating and overly arrogant? Someone who lacks empathy or exhibits an inflated sense of entitlement? You probably do. Whether they are family members, friends, or coworkers, when it comes to dealing with the narcissist in your life, you may be at your wits’ end. So, how can you stand up for yourself without getting caught in crossfire? Listen to this episode of PS and find out! – Jimmie

 

CLICK HERE to download your free guide on narcissism!

PS 036: Bullying with Israel (Izzy) Kalman.

My guest on this episode of Psych Sessions is Israel (Izzy) Kalman.  Izzy obtained his Master of Science Degree in Clinical Psychology from Hahnemann Medical College and Hospital, Philadelphia, PA.  He is a Nationally Certified School Psychologist who has been working in schools and private practice since 1978. Izzy has developed methods that use role playing to teach basic psychological principles for solving bullying, aggression and relationship problems.

Bullying with words or actions is unacceptable, and we need to work together to make it stop. Bullying can take various forms including: teasing, gossiping, excluding, and hitting. Bullying can occur in person and online (cyber bullying). Bullying has changed over the years, and we need to understand how to deal with modern day bullies.  During the show, you’ll hear Izzy and me role-play an example of how to disempower a bully. You’ll also learn what to do if you know a child who is being bullied.

CLICK HERE to download your free guide on how to deal with bullying!

PS 035: Irrelationship: How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy

In this episode of Psych Sessions, I speak with the authors of Irrelationship:  How We use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy. 

Irrelationship is a jointly created psychological defense system that two or more people maintain to avoid awareness of the anxiety that’s part of becoming intimate with others, especially feelings about letting people see and know us for who we really are.

Mark B. Borg, Jr., (PhD) is a community and clinical psychologist and a psychoanalyst practicing in New York City. He is founding partner of The Community Consulting Group, a consulting firm that trains community stakeholders, local governments and other organizations to use psychoanalytic techniques in community rebuilding and revitalization.

Grant H. Brenner (MD) is a psychiatrist in private practice in New York City, specializing in treating mood & anxiety disorders & the complex problems arising from developmental childhood trauma. He works from a humanistic & integrative perspective, incorporating evidence-based approaches as well as innovative techniques such as transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS) & neurofeedback.

Daniel Berry (RN, MHA) has practiced as a Registered Nurse in New York City since 1987. Working in in-patient, home care and community settings, his work has taken him into some of the city’s most privileged households as well as some of its most underserved and dangerous public housing projects in Manhattan and the South Bronx.

During the podcast, we discuss how people in irrelationship can generally be described as falling into the category of either Performer or Audience. The Performer is driven to caretaking of the Audience while the Audience hangs back, allowing the Performer to continue and even escalate efforts to “rescue” or “fix” him or her. Paradoxically, by hanging back, the Audience is covertly taking care of the Performer allowing him to act out his need to be a rescuer. For both parties, this process fends off anxiety, but in so doing, they jointly eliminate the possibility—or risk—of developing a genuine, meaningful relationship.For most people, intimacy is likely to be both desired and feared. This conflict is at the heart of irrelationship, which develops as a result of a break in the development of a secure attachment as children.

Listen in and learn how to tell if you’re affected by irrelationship and what you can do about it.

PS 034: Sexual Anorexia with Candice Christiansen (M.Ed., CMHC)

My guest on this episode of Psych Sessions is Candice Christiansen. Candice is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist-Supervisor, Certified EMDR Trauma Therapist, and Certified Abel Assessor. She graduated from the University of Utah in 2002 with a Master’s of Education-Counseling Speciality. Her clinical background includes: working with sexual offenders in a half-way house and outpatient setting, treating survivors of domestic abuse in transitional housing, starting and overseeing an intensive day treatment substance abuse program in Scottsdale, Arizona, and overseeing a Substance Abuse Residential Treatment Program in Sandy, Utah. Candice founded Namaste Center for Healing in 2014 with the intention of assisting individuals, couples and families with trauma, intimacy issues and other addictions/aversions in finding long-term recovery.

Sexual anorexia is an obsession with avoiding anything sexual, which can even include non-sexual behavior like hugging. It’s a coping skill that’s helps the individual feel safe by being in control of their body and deciding who does what to it.  Treating sexual anorexia can include looking at past trauma, neglect, and whether a person was teased about their body or sexual development.  Even having a parent treat their child like a surrogate partner can be a factor.  Both men and women can have sexual anorexia, and nurturing plays a big role.  Tune in to learn more about this fascinating topic.

PS 033: The Power of Play Therapy With Pam Dyson (MA, LPC-S, RPT-S)

My guest on this episode of Psych Sessions is Pam Dyson. Pam is a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor, Registered Play Therapist Supervisor, child development expert and parenting coach.  In addition to her private practice in Plano, Texas she provides consultation and supervision services and facilitates play therapy workshops at conferences throughout the US. She is the recipient of the Association for Play Therapy 2013 Key Award for Professional Education and Training and is currently serving a three year term on the APT Board of Directors. Pam is the founder and director of the DFW Center for Play Therapy Training. 

Play therapy is a theoretical model of therapy that helps children prevent problems, resolve behavioral difficulties, and achieve optimal growth and development.  During our discussion, we explain that play is an important means of communication for children.  While play therapy generally includes children ages 3-12, it’s not limited to this age group. In fact, therapies for teens and adults include art based play, sand tray and miniatures.  There’s also efficacy in using play therapy with family therapy and groups. Play therapy can even be an effective form of treatment for those with dementia as a way of helping the client reconnect with their inner child and play out their life experiences.

Play therapy is even helpful with working through trauma and the resistance that comes with it.  Talk therapy is more left brained while expressive therapy (like play) stimulates the right side of the brain, which can help children and adults bridge their trauma narrative.

Pam and I also cover how to structure play therapy sessions, including what types of toys and materials can be used in therapeutic play!

 

PS 032: Postpartum Depression with Jay Noricks (PhD)

In this episode, I discuss Postpartum Depression with Jay Noricks (PhD). Dr. Noricks received his doctorate at the University of Pennsylvania in Psychological Anthropology. He specializes in trauma therapy using an approach called Parts Psychology.

Dr. Noricks explains that everybody has Parts. It’s in normal language as in “A part of me wants to leave him, but another part of me can’t imagine life without him.” Or “My brain says one thing and my heart says another.” Heart and brain are two different kinds of parts. The Parts of a person are where memories are stored.

Postpartum depression is similar to major depression, but it follows right after birth or right after miscarriage or stillbirth. Symptoms are often specific to motherhood, but it’s different from the “baby blues.” Feelings of abandonment are frequently important in postpartum depression. But a history of chronic trauma or abuse in childhood can also bring feelings of helplessness or powerlessness that are activated by childbirth. This can be another source of postpartum depression.

During our discussion, we explore this trauma-based, self-state therapy for emotional healing. And we talk about the complexity of memories.  Implicit emotional memories are attached to factual memories of what happened where and when. Neutralizing painful memories connected to actual events involves working with parts of the self.  This can be an effective approach to facilitate emotional healing from various traumatic events, not just PTSD associated with childbirth. 

Thanks for listening! -Jimmie